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Life is a mystery, especially when it comes to miscarriages


Life is a mystery. We can try to explain all that's happening in our lives with a rational mind but the older I get, the more I realize that not everything is rationally explainable.

I fact, it may be better not to. Especially when it comes to conceiving life and carrying babies inside our bodies. 

I mean, really, why do some couples have a harder time to conceive than others?

Why do some couples struggle for years?

Why do some (actually one out of four women) experience the heartbreaking loss of their child through a miscarriage, maybe even more than once?

Sure, we can now try to explain it all medically and physically, but that's not the whole picture...

I strongly believe that there is a mystery and a spiritual aspect to creating life that cannot be grasped with our limited mind nor intellectually understood, regardless of how much we try.

My mother had eight miscarriages. I am child number 10, the second to survive, and the only girl. 

My parents were married for over 20 years before I arrived at the scene. 

I have only a vague rational explanation as to why my mother is the mother of 8 angels, but I see the bigger picture. I am extremely grateful that my parents did not give up. 

And (hopefully, you don't get me wrong) in a way I am grateful as I would not be here if two or three of her first boys - my brothers - would have survived. I am grateful my six brothers moved to heaven and thus made my life possible.

So to all of us who experienced miscarriage and loss (me included) let me say: we may not know why these heartbreaks happen but we also don't know what beauty and joy lie ahead of us. And what baby spirits will finally come to us and be very grateful how it all played out....💕😘💥

With love,


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